I know being a mother or a parent is a hard task, that's why me and my husband are not yet planning to have one until we are financially stable (though my body clock is ticking).  We are very afraid of the responsibilities of having a child.  We are worried how we will feed them, how to take care of them and how they will live or survive.  In short, we are worried in all the things that will happen.  Now the question is:  IS IT REALLY HARD?

Well, my cat Qiana gave birth few weeks ago.  We are both excited what will be the kitties look like. Will they look like their mother Qiana who is so gorgeous?  Or will they look like the father?

One day, when we went home from work. SURPRISE! She gave birth! And we are really really happy for her.  When we are checking the babies, well they are not so cute yet as we are expecting and we know that because they are still small.  After few minutes, my cat stood up and greeted us though she's not leaving her place.  We are surprised to see there's one more kitties lying, and she's/he's dead.  'm not sure if that is a boy or a girl, my it looks badly damaged.  I don't know if it's my cat's fault because that's the first time that she gave birth.  Anyways, one is dead out of 4 kittens..not so bad. 

Few days later, the kitties are starting to look cute.  These 3 kitties are so loved by their mother.  She always hugs them (literally hugs them) and cleans them all the time.  I think my cat has a OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder).  The first 2 are boys and they are so HUGE. They even have this jelly belly like the mother.  The smallest one is so small.  BUT she's the only one who got the look of their mom, she looks like a pure Turkish van though the father is from I don't know what breed.

Sad to say, she's a little deformed.  Maybe she was born before the dead one.  She has a flat chest and looks difficult to breath.  She's so love by her mom.  She always stays beside her. I feel that Qiana treats her special maybe she feels that there's something wrong with her.  I feel bad abut it but I'm still thankful she's alive. 

Now, being a mother, of 3 kitties, is still difficult.  I always see my cat looking underneath our lavatory (where these kitties stays).  She's crying/talking to them.  I think she's saying "get out..come here" and the kitties doesn't react to her.  I also notice that she's giving discipline to them.  When the kittens  will start to walk to the toilet and she will talk to them though I can't understand But i feel what she wants to say. I'm a cat whisperer! hehe. 

I think she gets problematic with he children and that's why I conclude that being a parent is a difficult task.

Well, a lot of people there will disagree with me and say that being a parent is the best thing that happened to them.  Duh! I'm not yet a parent and I'm not talking as a professional here.

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